baby Bista is a……..

Gender Reveal (Kellan)

BOY!!!!!

I have always known, somewhere deep down – maybe call it intuition – that I would only have boys. I even remember having the thought while pulling Kellan in a wagon in our neighborhood in Colorado, probably at least a year ago, if not longer. It went something like, “Do you really want another one? You already know it’ll be a boy.”

It’s like my whole life has set me up to be a mom of boys. I only have brothers. I preferred to play with the boys in my neighborhood growing up (making forts and jumping over bushes and riding skateboards down steep driveways was way more fun than Barbies). I was even envious of my brother being in Boy Scouts. *I* wanted to be in Boy Scouts. Girl Scouts was so boring. I legit would hide during meetings because I didn’t want to see how long it would take for dripping water to fills cup. Bring on the Pinewood Derby (that’s a Boy Scout thing) and camping trips and why can’t I go to the meetings????

As I got older, I felt like I could relate to boys better. I preferred having friends that were boys. I liked stereotypical “boy” activities better. Boys were more interesting and did more interesting things. Boys were not complicated (until I was a teenager, and honestly, I’m pretty sure the overthinking and emotional state we girls are in at that point are what makes that whole thing complicated in the first place).

This is not to say I never had girl friends. I did. I still do. Some of those friends will forever be near and dear to my heart, with years and years of memories.

What I’m saying is, I know boys. I am totally comfortable with boys. Boys are predictable (to me). Boys are well within my comfort zone and I have lots of years of experience with them. I truly enjoy doing the things they like to do. I would be hopelessly lost with a prissy, doll-loving, wants to get mani-pedis, french braid my hair girl. I’d be like….well, to start, I’d need lessons on how to french braid hair.

And how to properly apply makeup.

All that.

Don’t get me wrong, I’m in awe of those girls, mostly because I have never been one and I could never figure out how to be one, though I tried and tried….and tried….and tried.

I think I finally realized somewhere down the age line that that isn’t me, and that’s why I can’t be that person, even though there were times I REALLY WANTED TO BE THAT GIRL.

I’m not. I never will be. And that’s okay.

All this time, all this gravitation toward more “boy” things…has completely prepared me for this journey. I’m more than ready and so very excited that Kellan will have a brother, that we will have another son, that our family will be complete.

I will say that I am sad that Tim will not have a daughter. I mean, yes, it is true we will never know what it is like to raise a girl. We just have to take it as we aren’t supposed to have that experience, that our path has a purpose, and that path and purpose is full of boys. Don’t get me wrong, Tim is super excited about baby Bista. He just knows that this will be the last child to occupy my uterus (though others think we will change our minds…), for a variety of reasons. So, barring adoption (which isn’t something we are considering), there will not be a girl in this house (other than me…hahahahahaha). And that’s just what it is, and honestly, and this goes for every single person and family out there – there need not be any explanation as to why we are happy or sad or anything.

This is our family.

We are all deeply devoted, protective, and completely in love with every single aspect of it. Tim even said to me the other day…and I quote, “We’ve built a life together.”

He is totally right.

We love our family.

We love our life.

It’s as simple as that.

P.S.: And for those wondering what baby Bista’s name will be….stay tuned…until June. Because, for those of you who remember baby sprout (Kellan!), that’s a secret we don’t tell anyone until they are born. I’m pretty sure we drive our family and friends crazy. We don’t even give up initials. Top secret information over here.

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9 Responses to “baby Bista is a……..”


  1. 1 lucindalines January 31, 2015 at 4:11 pm

    I understand if you only have boys you may not get that baby girl feel, but as a mother of all girls I can assure you in time the other gender arrives and then there are grandchildren. The only problem with grandchildren is those doggone parents think you have to give them back.

  2. 3 Peggy Nolan January 31, 2015 at 8:09 pm

    Just like you’ve always known you’d be a mom to boys, I always knew I’d be a mom to girls. When my grandson came along, I was stumped. Of course I figured it out real quick but boy oh boy…I know girls so much better 🙂

  3. 5 Samantha Webb February 1, 2015 at 12:07 am

    Congratulations! So excited for you!! Kellan will love having a brother. We LOVE having two boys! It has been just so so fun to see them interact and to think of how they will always have each other. I am so looking forward to watching them grow up together. Having two boys is just really great! So cheers to you and your precious baby boy!

  4. 6 Amy February 1, 2015 at 9:42 am

    YAY!!!!! I was hoping girl but knew it would be a boy. I’m so happy for you guys. This is so perfect. Congratulations.

  5. 8 Britni February 3, 2015 at 12:24 pm

    Congrats!! Little boys are adorable. 🙂 I can’t say I felt like I ever “knew” what I would have, but I’ve always known I would be a Mom. That never felt like a question to me. How are you and baby Bista doing? I officially have a very active little girl swimming around in there. She’s always doing something. I tell everyone she’s quite busy. (24 weeks now)


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